Disabled and Housebound

disabled and housebound

Difficult with MS mobility issues

Disabled and housebound, are these two separate problems? They can be mutually exclusive but much worse, you could be both disabled and housebound. I will discuss 5 ways to help you survive being housebound, I will throw in physical disability for good measure.

Walls feel like they are closing in

The biggest problem, you can easily loose contact with what is happening outside of your tiny world. This is an extremely difficult problem to handle. You can easily find yourself losing the will to live and compete. There are times when the walls feel like they are closing in. Its hard to know what to do if you physically can not get out side, no matter how much you may want to.

Friends are very important

Here are a few tips that might help you. Friends and family are very important, do not forget that. They can bring you news, information. presents, gossip. If they are good friends you can talk with them or at them. They will listen to you and help you to stay mentally alert. Anyway here are a few hints to help you with survival.

1) Bring the outside world into your home

Ask friends, carers or relations to bring something from the outside in for you to see, smell and handle. There is always something that tells you about the season, something from the garden, local park or maybe the beach, Change the photographs as the seasons change. Think of things that evoke thoughts of the month or season. Try to ensure that the curtains are pulled back during the day so you can see what is happening outside.

2) Keep your mind active

You need something to break the monotony and boredom. Maybe its possible to play games with friends such as chess, scrabble or bridge. The radio is always good because you can be doing something else while listening. Photography, painting or drawing will always keep you thinking. In a room the light will create shadows, pets and people can often be good subjects. Nothing beats a good 1000 piece jigsaw puzzle but you will need a separate table for it.

There are a huge number of other activities that can stimulate you. Keeping a diary is a good one but I do not find it easy but there are things like Audio Boo, a form of social networking. So often there are books that you have kept for a rainy day and don’t forget the Kindle.

Television, this is a difficult one to call. I hardly watch any TV but there are some excellent programs but there is also an awful lot of rubbish. Over a period of time I get hooked into TV and I soon reach the stage of where I am a professional couch potato. Before I know it I’m eating packets of biscuits, crunching my way through crisps and pizzas. Before I know it I have lost interest in everything else. The other problem with TV is that it always demands 100% of your concentration because the picture is changing. TIf you want to stop just tell your self  its visual chewing gum.

 3) Friends

If possible ask your friends and relatives to come at different times when they visit you. Their role is so important. Change and variation makes the days less monotonous and less predictable.

 4) Use social media

The advent of the computer means that there is so much more information available, it is almost limitless. Here are a few ideas

  • Write on different forums, if it is a good forum then the conversation thread can take unexpected turns. There are forums on anything you can think of, well almost anything.
  • Learn new skills, for example touch typing, correspondence courses, languages.
  • Start a blog, build a website, create a Facebook page and post comments to Twitter, start Audi Boo. It is very easy to build up a circle of virtual friends using the Internet and Social Networking.

 5) Celebrate happy events

Make sure that you celebrate birthdays and personal successes. This is important because it gives you something to look forward to. Always ensure that they are joyful occasions and that there are people to celebrate them with you.

Always remember the good times

A calender or a diary allows you to plan for the future as well as record the moments that you enjoyed.

Being housebound is incredibly frustrating. As your strength and energy returns it is only too easy to push yourself too hard, you end up taking a step backwards. I’m talking from experience. Always remember the good times, that makes it much more bearable.

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3 responses to “Disabled and Housebound”

  1. Hello Albert,

    First of all speak to local CAB and you must appeal, appeal and appeal. It is quite possible that PIP application was not answered correctly, you must put down worst scenario. I hope you have kept a copy of the PIP form you submitted.

    It is all very stressful, I am in the process of going from DLA to PIP, it is an horrendous, terribly unfriendly process

  2. Caroline says:

    Very useful Advice ! Thank You! I Ve been diagnosed with Degenerative Disc Disease , so walking is painful …mi am 65 and still very lively ! My Flat is in a Historic Buliding – Third Floor : 56 Steps , very winding …. Getting more difficult to get out of late …..

  3. Peter says:

    Hi Patrick we haven’t met but i recently sent you an email about the cure for MS and other diseases, I see you give out good advice, and i thank you for it, I just wanted to thank you for expending the effort to Do something.
    The Kindest regards Peter.

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